Here we go again....
And I am unsure how you don't know who she is, she has been in the chatroom with you plenty of times.
This is not what she said, not even close.
This thread seems to be pretty positive with the exception of the conversations with you. As was mentioned before, perhaps there is a connection, and the forum which has numerous people of different backgrounds who may or may not know you is not the problem.
They seem to stir up a lot of emotion and attention from you if that is the case.
For now, I personally am going to assume (yes there we Objectivists go again, we just can't stop ourselves!) that your apology is more to save face than anything, and is not very sincere. A post will not convince me (I am not, of course, suggesting that you care at all) in this instance, your general behavior towards people on this website from this point forward will.