Agreed. The best sex there is is with someone I've known and have been having it with for a while.
A real man or woman doesn't need to display anything. They just are what they are and they are confident in that.
The dominance game is fake. If someone is playing the dominant one, the other is consenting to do it, so it isn't really dominance at all. And if it is real dominance, where someone does not consent, it's not dominance and is not sex at all, but rape.
The dominance game is merely a form of foreplay. It helps make all concerned very excited before intercourse. It's just an exciting game.
Good stuff! I got a chance on Sunday to sit and listen to some of these Webcasts. Some good and helpful hints here and there and everywhere.
The thing I like most about them is the "philosophy in action" idea. After all, why go to the trouble of learning the philosophy if I am not going to use it?
I live my life in thinking and action. That is to say, in my everyday life, I have to think on my feet. I don't have time to sit and study problems, to sit around and write papers. I have to fix problems and keep everything going to the best of my ability.
In my spare time, I try to take the time to keep the philosophy fresh in my mind so that it will be there for me and I can put it to work for me when I want it.
For me, philosophy is practical and applied. It is high ideals I am striving for, of course, as I think I should always strive to be the best I can be, but it is also just a hammer, a pair of pliers or a shovel when I need one.
It is good to hear the philosophy applied in everyday life, in everyday situations.
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