CosmoSlotnick

She's a lesbian, you're not...which should have ended all this before it ever began. You really shouldn't even be that close a friend to a woman who you aren't dating and have no option to date. Casual acquaintances aside, men should be friends with men; women, friends with women. And don't tell women "how you feel" before you are even dating them. Date them and make them want you, then you don't have to worry about the "does she or doesn't she". Once you are in a relationship, then you can talk about your feelings until you're blue in the face.