TreynToWin

Dear Objectivists, I am an aspiring novelist, and I have a romance in mind between two characters. The problem is, due to my upbringing as a christian mystic, I am still trying to straighten out my own sexuality, let alone the seemingly mystical realm of what happens in a female's mind and body. I'm going to be frank and open about what I know, and what I don't know, and I promise you that I will not be sarcastic without noting so immediately. If I ask a question here, its not intended to inflame, its that I failed to fully understand your response. I understand that the essence of female sexuality is 'hero worship'. Is the hero different for every woman? Does she consciously/subconsciously program what hero qualities she is or isn't attracted to, or is it the other way around (I.E. she is attracted to them, therefore she adds them to the proverbial list) What is the essence of male sexuality? AR constantly paints the heroes of her books as effectual and strong willed men, but what exactly is it that drives a man's mind and body? (Or does she or Dr. Peikoff ever cover that?) I have about umpty-bajillion other questions on this topic, but I think that until we resolve these, it would probably be a waste of time.