- All relationships are voluntary. A child chooses to live with his parents or run away - but if he chooses to live with his parents, he must accept whatever their terms are.
Which does not mean that those terms are unrestricted in nature, i.e. it can’t be “Term 1: you must cut off a finger every month”.
Raising a child you don’t want to raise is self-sacrificial and altruistic; I don’t see how any conception of parents having a duty to raise their children can be reconciled with Objectivism.
We need to insert the abortion thread in here somewhere. By not aborting the fetus and choosing to let it grown to fruition, the parents have made a commitment of some kind. From a moral point of view, the parents should therefore face reality, and deal with their evil spawn. If they did not know, with moral certainty, that they would be able to do what is necessary to be proper custodians of the rights of the child, they should have scraped it or used a condom to prevent conception in the first place. Thus I think that parents taking care of their children falls squarely in the territory “taking responsibility for your actions”, which is a central concept of Objectivism. There might very rarely be extreme circumstances where you really are faced with “my life or his”, but nothing that falls within the scope of “don’t want to raise”, that is, a loss of interest. So the parents should morally take responsibility for their actions.
The child doesn’t have a right to things, like food, any more than a man does. So, to sum up, a child has surrendered the rights a man has (to his parents), and never had the rights that moochers claim.
I think that the right way to look at the issue is that the child has the rights of any human, and that the parents are the custodians of those rights. This primarily means that the parent may rightfully correct the bad judgment of their child, and if necessary enforce that correction. Adults have the right to act to their own end, and the judgment as to what that end is, is their own to make (as long as it doesn’t involve violating another man’s rights). A parent has the responsibility to make those judgments according to the interest of the child – not the interest of the adult, but the interest of the child. So the parent’s right to act for their own sake is different, and broader, than the parent’s right to act for their child’s sake. The parents also have the responsibility to feed and shelter the child while he is incapable of doing so for himself. It’s dubious whether a person can actually surrender their rights, and for ordinary (non-criminal) people, you don’t surrender a right when you enter into a contract, you gain a right (to an object, for example) under the condition that you perform an act (paint a fence, for example).
- Under the same line of reasoning, the government has no responsibility to care for children who are abandoned, etc, just as it has no responsibility to care for a jobless 50-year-old.
That’s correct. It is therefore possible that an irresponsible parent will shirk their responsibility to take care of the child, perhaps because they just feel bored and don’t want to deal with the consequences of their earlier unprotected sex act. It’s another matter, and not a trivial one IMO, to what extent the government should compel parents to care for their offspring. Fortunately, there are private charities who will take up the slack.