I considered the question easy because it did not involve doing anything comparably worse than watching my wife die. The basic choice is: watch my wife die or steal some medicine.
Alright, so it seems that your this is based on the comparison of two bad paths, death versus theft, and the judgment that the former is very clearly bad, compared to the latter. This judgment is compatible with two principles of what’s more important – life (over property), and wife (over strangers). So when you say
Depending on the specific situation I might even be willing to kill an innocent in order to save my wife.
depending on those details, it looks to me as though life over property can’t be the principle for you. Where I am puzzled is that you later say w.r.t. the idea of killing an innocent to save your own life
In any case, I wouldn’t kill an innocent simply so I could have their liver.
it looks to me like there a complex interaction between “life vs. property” and “wife vs. others”, where you value your wife more than you value your own life, so that you might be willing to kill to save her life, but not your life. That seems kind of backwards to me, although chivalrous.
I’m trying to understand the answer to this problem in terms of principles (and to understand your moral intuitions in terms of principles), and I am skeptical about the possibility of there being any general balancing of principles. The closest that I can come is the principle that you would do anything for your wife as long as the rights violation is not worse than the bad that you are trying to avoid befalling your wife. So death beats theft, death (of wife) beats death (of stranger), but death (of stranger) beats pain (of wife). I’m predicting that you would be willing to steal to get the pain medicine for your wife, but not kill. You can let me know if my surmise is correct. In addition, it seems based on the “when would I kill” consideration, you value your wife’s life more than your own. Dunno if you really meant that.
All I’m doing is violating some guy’s property rights. And, besides, the way the situation was described, the doctor sounded like a jerk. Would a real doctor raise the price of the medicine so that I couldn’t even afford it? What’s the point of doing that other than to be a heartless jerk.
We didn’t have any information about the motives, so I assume that he needed the money so that he could pay the ransom and save his own wife’s life. Plus, this was a one-of-a-kind medicine; he knew there were hundreds of potential customers who would pay much more than the $10,000 that he was asking for. So I hadn’t thought that he was a jerk. Maybe the problem is that doctors are presumed to be self-sacrificial and not motivated by profit, and this scenario is phrased in terms of a doctor raising the price. Drug companies do frequently raise the prices of medicine with the result that whole villages are unable to afford to buy the drugs. I don’t think that they raise the prices just to be jerks, but when you live in rural Tanzania and the entire village can cough up at best $50, it is simply bound to happen that people can’t afford to buy fancy drugs.