But I want to debate a point that I find at least somewhat slippery. One guy was arguing that he himself morally fails, but that he can still blame others for moral failures. I suspect that something in this is wrong, but I’m not certain what. So I am going to argue for that view and see where it gets me. Any challengers?
Some of my assertions, then, are:
It is, in principle, possible to be perfectly ethical (for some extremely demanding code of ethics).
It is so difficult that almost nobody succeeds.
I do not succeed all the time.
I can still blame others and criticize others for moral failures.
Even though I do wrong, I criticize myself for it and believe that I can and should do better.
Where’s the contradiction, if there is one?
The most obvious problem with this is that this sort of thinking is the opposite of thinking in principles. If something is wrong, it is wrong not just for one person, but for all people. If one person is justified in making a mistake under certain conditions, then so are all other men.
What this guy tries to do is to say “it’s justified if I make a mistake/ fail morally, but it is not justified for other people.” It buys him a very convenient status of moral superiority while not having to work too hard to be good.
As for the second part of your post:
There was, in the room, a ubiquitous and unchallenged assumption that all ethics is painful, grudging, unhappy work–to have a meaningful ethical code, [almost] everybody must fail to live up to its standards.
If it wasn’t for guilt (induced by the ethical code they have partially accepted), they could have stolen without feeling bad. this is probably why they see ethics as painful. If they could just get rid of the guilt, or get rid of the ethical code, stealing would serve their self-interest, so they think. When you don’t accept ethics, you get to keep a pile of gold (which you stole). When you accept ethics, you don’t get to have the pile of gold.
Or to give a different example: you can sit on your butt and let somebody else do the dishes/ take out the trash. It is unfair that the people living with you have to do all the work. But if you could just get rid of the guilt, get rid of the voice in your head telling you that you are acting immorally, you get to sit on your butt, watch T.V. , have somebody else take out the dirty trash and have a much better life.
Obviously, it is better off without the ethical code. No? So what is the error here? What is the loss in getting rid of ethics?
The error is that when you do what is ethical you are acting in your best, long term interest. Dishes won’t clean themselves, and human beings cannot exist as your slaves. Acting against it is acting against reality. It makes you dependent on the destruction of others - on the extent to which they are willing to let you ride on their back. You become a dependent leach. Now it’s time to say nice goodbye to your self esteem and start finding flaws in others to make you feel better (which accidentally, or not so accidentally brings us back to the first half of my post).