Recently I had a philosophical debate with a friend on questions of metaphysics. I was cornered by her request to define existence.
It all started with her request to define reality. She asked me to explain what I mean by this term. I answered that reality is the widest abstraction which contains everything that exists. Then she asked me what existence is, what it means “to exist”. My offhand answer (which I now don’t like) was that to exist means to be perceived or to have a potential to be perceived. She immediately countered that there are people who perceive imps, green gremlins and other stuff like that so doesn’t it mean that all these things exist?
I have two answers on this question but they both them seem to me unsatisfactory. First is that here we are speaking about pathology, about some perceptual dysfunction and that in a definition above it is implied that organs of perception function properly. But to distinguish between norm and pathology we first need to know what exists and what doesn’t because normal perception is a function which perceives what exists. So there is a kind of circularity involved.
My second answer is that nobody can really perceive imps and green gremlins in a full sense of this term. Imps and green gremlins can not kill you or feed you or protect you, i. e. they can not physically affect your life. And all these are forms of perception too. But to this it may be simply answered: “so what”? Yes, we can perceive them by some means but we can not perceive them by others. But we can not see sounds or hear colors, nevertheless sounds and colors do exist. How can we arbitrary elevate some forms of perception above others?
I think that the deeper problem here is a problem with my initial definition – it seems to me that it implies a primacy of consciousness. As a consequence – trying to defend it, I was constantly pushed to some subjectivist metaphysics, the kind which equates reality to social convention. But how else can we define existence? And is it definable? To define something we should refer to some existent in definition, so we will necessarily come to some circularity. On the other side it is clear that we have some way to distinguish between existence and non-existence.
I will be grateful if anyone would help me to resolve these issues.
Edit: grammar