In the debate, John Mackey charges that following a strict conception of self-interest will lead one to disregard any actions taken for others. He accepts the dictionary definition of selfishness and argues against living by it, saying that we should take others into account and balance our interests with those of others.
Kelley responds by disputing this conception of selfishness, as he should, and immediately refers to his own work on benevolence and its relation to selfishness. In so doing, he gives a hypothetical of a neighbor’s house burning down, and discusses self-interested reasons to help that person. Namely, he refers to ‘investing in a social practice’ that he himself might need some day.
This rebuttal completely misses the central point that Kelley should address head on. There’s a much simpler reason why you might want to help someone in that situation: because you care about that person. This gets to a central question that Kelley, astoundingly, fails to address. The question is, what role do other people play in our own selfish values?
Mackey contends that, by and large, the two are non-overlapping spheres; there’s acting for self-interest, and then there’s acting for others. Thus, his example of extreme self-interest is a narcissist that never acts for others. The important distinction for the Objectivist to make is that a narcissist is someone who fails to value other people at all! Selfishness is all about pursuing your own values, and the question is: can other people be values to us? When put this way, the answer is obvious; of course they can! I care deeply about many people in my life. Their happiness helps to constitute my own; their happiness brings me joy, and their pain brings me sorrow. This is what ties acting for others into self-interest, far more so than furthering some social code of helping.
We can put some more meat on this issue by considering its application to some real-life questions of how we should treat other people. This will help to illustrate why selfishness is important even when doing things for others. Let’s consider a couple of (related) hypotheticals. In the first, I’m considering going to the hospital to pay a visit to someone who’s been injured. In the second, I’m considering spending the night by their bedside in the hospital, to keep them company and reassure them. How do I decide what to do in either case?
In either scenario, the central question is: what does this person mean to me? The reference point is me, myself, my life. It might sound unfamiliar (and maybe callous) to couch the question in these terms, but I encourage the reader to take a second and actually consider this scenario. I’m sure there are many people in your life to whom you would gladly pay a hospital visit if they were sick, or injured. Coworkers, acquaintances, distant relatives, any number of people that you know and like well enough so that you’d take the time to visit them and brighten their day if they were hurt or sick. However, for most of these people, you probably wouldn’t put your life on hold and sleep in a folding chair in a hospital room just to keep them company. You might like them, but you don’t like them that much.
But there are some people that you would put everything else aside to be with. Immediate family, very close friends, certainly significant others. When people mean a lot to us, we’re willing to do a lot for them, as well we should be. I hope Mackey would agree that this is an appropriate way to act and make choices when we’re “balancing our self-interest” against other concerns. My point is, in order to act this way, we need to look to ourselves, fundamentally. We do (and should!) treat people differently based, not on some cosmic scale of importance, but on what they mean to us personally. To rephrase this, we should take actions for them to the extent that doing so is also pursuing our own values. We should help them when it’s selfish, in Rand’s sense, to do so.
In the debate, John Mackey states that he’s using the dictionary definition of selfishness, and that it’s Ayn Rand and David Kelley’s job to justify using a different definition. Well, here is my justification: the integrating principle behind how we should treat other people and how far we should go to help them is inherently a self-oriented principle. It depends on what they mean to us, their relation to our life and our values. If you’re willing to acknowledge that other people can be values to us, just as our career or our health or other such ‘selfish’ values can, then self-interest provides an overarching moral framework that integrates our actions towards other people with the pursuit of our own values. Mackey suggests that we should balance these two things, and perhaps he has some additional ideas as to how to do that, but the truth is this: we should balance acting for others with acting for ourselves the same way that we make decisions between our ‘selfish’ values, by evaluating their importance to us and paying fidelity to our values.