Short answer: “Shrug the education off” (like in Atlas Shrugged, but doesn’t mean dropping out)
Looong answer: (I promise it’s worth it)
Good topic. (I’ll be talking only about college education, though. High school doesn’t even worth 10 letters it takes to spell it, though same applies.) I will outline my approach on this … nasty problem.
I’m in middle of college right now, but I had tackled this problem 5 years ago, I believe I’ve mastered it. I had to adapt to crappy education and yet learn more valuable skills/experience every day than I ever had before. (I had same feelings you have now, but worse b/c of my specific case.)
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Education sucks. I’m heavily biased, but education in at least USA lags behind to accomodate everyone. So, if you are above average (which is easy to become), then you have to wait until the slowest of your class gets the material before moving on. Grades are adjusted for accomodate those slow people. (“Oh, no, can’t have them cry over bad grades they get for zero effort.”) And so on and so on.
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You need the paper with the fancy ink.
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You can only get it after you get through 4-5 years of education/“jail”.
Solution? Adapt. Look at the real requirements it takes to get that paper:
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4-5 years of waiting? Sure, this can’t be hard.
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Get decent GPA? OK, this one takes some skill.
Forget about GPA, just keep it above 3.0 or 3.5 (schorlaship, parents, etc. determine your limit). So long as GPA is in this level, it won’t matter for your future. Trust me on this. There are better things to show. I’ll talk about that later.
Now ask yourself, what does it take to get B/B+/A in those classes? You know it doesn’t take a genius. Very little effort is needed. Take a look at ‘others’ around who get B’s. Yet, you struggle and get bad grades. Why? B/c you are in conflict with yourself - you are trying to run in the mud of modern education; it won’t let you. You try hard to learn a lot and fast from the courses. Yet the classes offer little and are slow. Forget about the classes. Do as little as possible to get B and above. You will discover how easy it is, b/c of the entire system that has been put in place. Don’t fight the system. Go along with it. You are smart; you’ll flow in it better than those it was designed for.
- So, let’s recount.
3a. You don’t care about GPA, so long as it’s above 3.0-3.5.
3b. You don’t care about classes or how much you learn from them, so long as you get B and above. (C here and there is OK)
3c. Even if you have a scholarship, 3.0-3.5 is usually more than enough to keep it.
- So what do you get out of this ‘shrug’?
4a. your mind - you don’t go crazy/depressed over thinking how lame the system is
4b. your time - you don’t spend it on getting that A for some meaningless class
4c. your effort - you don’t burn out with sleepless unrest/study/despression/cramming
Now, think about this: if you were to do all of the above, where would you stand? You’ll be free.
You no longer spend your precious time, skills, and mind that you’ve been honing for so long on the lame paper. You’ll get it anyway. While you sit in class, look around, most will get that same paper. So, why do you bust yourself over it?
I know, your answer is “I want to do more than any one of them can dream of.” OK, that’s good. Will busting over those classes help you? No, those classes are not designed to help YOU, but to help that kind of people.
So, now you have freedom to do what you want while still waiting to get that paper. How should you spend freedom, if not on college classes? The answer is critical. If you get it wrong, you’ll be hating college. If you get it right, you won’t care b/c you’ve found a way around the system.
Answer: spend yourself on what you want to do.
I know it sounds simple and obvious, but you really need to think about it. And get your answer, not somebody else’s. You don’t need to go to college to get a job. You are forced to get a college degree to get a good job. Yes, you could do without it, but it’s much easier to play by their rules. Just make sure you understand those rules aren’t yours and what your goal is.
---- How I apply it: “personal thought process ahead”
If I want to program, why I should wait until the end of the college to get into useful classes for programmer? I shouldn’t.
So, I sit down and program right now and right here.
That’s it. If a class assignment comes by, I write/do the least is needed to get by. If I need to come to class, I take my laptop, book, notepad, whatever.
Just b/c someone is forcing me to attend/learn the course I paid for is not going to make me spend my effort on it (!!! imagine buying a book, and being forced to read it just b/c you bought it). I got a brain I will use it for what I want, not on the program they offer. I will spend 5 minutes figuring out the flaw the course/teacher/system has, and will use it to get A/B grade.
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Curving the grades? Awesome, earn B/C, get A/B.
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Paper due, but only size matters? Sure, type nonsense. They won’t get it anyway.
etc.
There is no guilt here, I do what I’m forced to do, nothing more.
The rest of my time I will spent on my work and my study.
What’s the study? What I want to do - games. I picked a project, and started working on it the same day. Non-stop, every day. Can you get that in college? Yeah, right, very few offer video game courses, and only while you take that course.
Conclusion: I want to spend all my time in college honing my skills right now. I won’t wait for their system to change.
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Critic:
- Don’t you feel sad that you missing out in college?
No, I get just how much they offer me. The rest will come on my own time at my own place, at my own pace, at my own intensity. I move with the speed I want, and nobody drags me down. I couldn’t be happier. 
- Don’t you get bad education this way?
No, I move full speed, covering more topics than any college could, even top notch schools. I study not only material, but also people from the industry where I’m heading to. Can my professor know any of this? No, he’s not in it.
- Don’t you miss proper skills you’ll need?
No, I browse companies job listings. I see exactly what I need, not what somebody decided to teach me 5 years ago in some government meeting. I read articles written by people of that industry. I note needed skills and push on them. I get more than any college could give me.
- So, you are basically wasting money on your college?
Yes, I am, but I’m not wasting my mind.
- How will this affect your carear?
I will learn to study things on my own. I’ll need this for the rest of my life.
I will have decent GPA that I won’t be taken down for. After first job, it won’t mean anything.
I will be able to show my work I had done, which will show my skills and what I can do for the company better than any college degree or GPA can.
- What about some fields where such approach just doesn’t work? (Medical, etc.)
Don’t know. Your choice - your challenge.
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P.S. If you want to know what my specific case was that forced to adapt to this, then ask me to post it.