15 hours ago, Jonathan Weissberg said:
Might it not make sense to be spontaneous in the moment and have one extra ice cream tub today just to reward this very hard work? Let’s say that you can reason that it’s fine because you’ll remove one ice cream tub from your cheat day. Thoughts?
Much that you do in life might “make sense”, but would it “make sense” to use up 90% of your time and energy making sure every single one of those little things you do is the absolute most optimal and correct thing to do.. up to a 99.8% margin of error…
Being literally crippled with thought and living only 10% of your life… I would suggest, does not “make sense”.
Trusting your intuition to know when you need to really need to engage in serious rational thought about what you are doing, how to make a choice, how you are going about something, I would suggest “makes sense” in the big picture… much of these things can be approached in an intuitive manner… and once something comes natural it should be autonomous/intuitive.
Remember learning to drive, or when you took your first driving test? Your mind was a flurry of activity trying to make sure you remembered to do everything to operate a vehicle, stay aware of the road pedestrians and other cars, and to follow and proceed in accordance with the rules of the road…
Today, you do almost all of this automatically, unless there is some sort of emergency or unique event which needs your focus… you have from experience trained yourself to know when reason needs to kick into high gear and what to focus it on in that situation… which means you can choose in the moment to think about more important things, things that you should take the time to think about. As it turns out, you can do such thinking, conveniently and relatively interruption free, while driving.
15 hours ago, Jonathan Weissberg said:
The reason I bring this up is not because I’m opposed to spontaneity but simply because I find this kind of in-the-moment decision of what I should do for some things not very good at helping me become who I want to be long-range.
ABSOLUTELY.
Recall the original question you posed dealt with
On 2/8/2021 at 8:30 PM, Jonathan Weissberg said:
acting on any unexamined impulse at any time
In a sense, we all need to develop the intuition to know when the context or the issue at hand requires examination.
I would not go so broad as “for some things” acting on unexamined impulse at any time is wrong… at least not if “some things” is meant to identify concrete categories of things, like baking, or accounting… but if one categorizes those “some things” as anything falling within some abstract categories or meeting some standards such as:
importance (gravity of consequence to your well being)
uniqueness/infrequency of the context viewed against your experience/skill to deal with it intuitively
etc.
Then those “some things”, should raise those flags necessary to get you to examine what the situation is and what your impulse is telling you, with greater scrutiny, and you can then take the time to think it through rationally.
It am not sure how the “flag raising” mechanism is formed or trained, but I think reflection on mistakes you have made in the past, conscientious introspection, and a conscious decision to pay attention to certain things in future all have a role to play in ensuring you stop and examine things when most appropriate and simply live your life and go with the moment when most appropriate for that.
So in a sense, tying this flag raising faculty in with reality:
A person is implicitly faking reality, or not living life in accordance with it, by failing to examine and grow from, prior actions or inactions which had inimical consequences on his life (whether the actions or inactions were on impulse or not).