[I Fantasize About Other Women]

Not a big deal, actually I think that every man, even if has a hottest wife or girlfriend fantasize about other women...

[What Should A Guy Do If He's Attracted To A Woman?]

On 6/5/2016 at 2:49 AM, dadmonson said:

I've been reading quite a bit about this and all the conflicting advice is confusing.  It's hard to tell the difference between fiction and fact.  Is there a certain way you can be to maximize your chances at ending up with the girl you like or not?  If so, then what do you suggest?  I want something similar to "pick up artist" advice coming from an O'ist perspective, I guess.

I don't agree that all women are the same but I do believe that there are certain ways you can act that will increase or decrease your chances with a girl .  For instance, I think we can all agree that being nice will increase your chances and being mean or boring will decrease your chances for most women.

If your answer is be a man of self esteem and be masculine...  I would ask you to try to describe how a masculine man of self esteem would be around a woman he was attracted to and what kinds of things would he say?  Also would he approach any random girl he finds in the street that he thinks is physically attractive?  If so, then how would he approach the girl?  What would he say?  Does what he say not even matter? 

Also, how can a man be sexy?

 

If anybody can link me to a book, article, essay to read or a video to watch that would great.

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There is only 2 things: confidence and money, it is best to have them both, or at least one.

[Today I hired an escort, yet felt nothing]

On 8/12/2014 at 1:36 PM, aleph_1 said:

Try being with a girl you actually like. There are many reasons that can explain your response. I suggest taking a girl you like out and taking it slow.

Well, exactly.

[Death of a loved one]

First is best solution - only new love will cure old one... Sorry fgor your friend