15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
Welcome to Objectivism Online, Harvey Meale.
Thank you very much! Great to be here. 
15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
Before my existence, there was no me actual, potential, or temporal. Any potential of me was distributed in other, actual human life and its materials at hand. My nonexistence before my life was nothing bad (or good) to me who was only a potential from actual parents. My nonexistence and indeed the earlier nonexistence of life on the planet was nothing bad or good to the pre-life world.
This is more like the discussion I was hoping for! Story checks out.
15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
But once I do become, come to live, dying is continuously largely a bad thing in that stop of life is bad, for largely, continuance of my life is good and is good for my fellows
Now we finally have some metaphysical discussion on the topic of death! For those still confused, this is what I’m alluding to. In the metaphysics of death, there are two opposing views: the Epicurean view and what we will call the Epicurean dilemma. You support the Epicurean dilemma perspective, as someone (as most people do) who sees death as bad.
The problem with your argument is how this badness manifests. For something bad to occur, one has to experience it as bad, correct? For experience to ensue, existence is predicated. Of course, if you are dead, you no longer exist. In the same way that once you’re dead, the notion of “your fellows” also no longer exists, as “your” fails to reference anything at all.
15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
Death of my loved ones is very largely bad for me, whatever to them in their life situation
Absolutely.
15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
Nothing can change the fact that we have been and been the mind and life and good and bad we were, even though all trace of our existence becomes erased and even if no mind remains in the universe. We living can love that fact.
Is it a fact though? Or is this perhaps an example of her Esthetics? Am I doing it right?
15 hours ago, Boydstun said:
I know some of this note repeats ideas already expressed in this thread, but I wanted to say howdy, this is me, and to return the welcome stimulus to reflect on this topic.
Thanks for dropping in! Hope to converse further with you in the time to come. 
9 hours ago, StrictlyLogical said:
Your terms “lens” of Objectivism, “ideology” of Objectivism, and that you (nonetheless) “welcome” Objectivist opinions, seem to imply much about your views of and perhaps your level of interest in the philosophy of Objectivism.
That would be a horribly misguided assumption. I am very interested in Objectivism but don’t yet know much about it. I realise there may be a difference between metaphysics in general and metaphysics through the guise of Objectivism and I’m simply not familiar yet with the extent of that differentiation.
9 hours ago, StrictlyLogical said:
“ideology” of Objectivism
I don’t know why you chose to include this in your post? It is an ideology…
9 hours ago, StrictlyLogical said:
This leaves me wondering, why do you choose to discuss philosophy with Objectivists and well … quite frankly… do you actually want to?
Absolutely! Anyone who prides themselves in their ability implement reason and logic in argument are the only people I want to discuss these ideas with. And who better than Objectivists?
I sincerely apologise if you feel as though I’ve implied that I’m above Objectivism or don’t agree with it or that it is just another fruitless ideology.
That was not my intention at all.
9 hours ago, StrictlyLogical said:
Objectivists here could shift into a mode of trying to second guess what other philosophies say about death, and perhaps poke holes (or fun?) but why bother? All an Objectivist can do is tell you what he or she thinks is objectively true in regards to death and insofar as he or she is Objectivist (and understands Objectivism correctly) what you will get is Objectivist philosophy.
And I welcome it, just as long as it doesn’t preclude an in-depth analysis of the issue. And I don’t see why it would either!
9 hours ago, StrictlyLogical said:
Perhaps, if you are disinterested in anything an Objectivist might have to say
You have mistaken me.
8 hours ago, Nicky said:
In Objectivism, ethics deals with what’s good or bad, and metaphysics deals with what is. Objectivism does not describe reality and natural laws and phenomenons as good or bad, it only describes human choices as good or bad.
Okay, then I’m referring to metaphysics in the regular non-Objectivist sense. I don’t know why we are all getting so caught up on terminology. I explained in an above post what the non-Objectivist interpretation of metaphysics with relevance to death is. And I have no idea why that view and the Objectivist view seem incompatible. It has the same meaning regardless of whether you look at it through the lens of Objectivism or otherwise. But for now let’s ignore the use of the word “metaphysics” then for it seems as though people here are incapable of distinguishing between its Objectivist meaning and non-Objectivist meaning. Let’s simply refer to it as “the nature of death” or “Is A’s death bad for A?”, to put it more simply.
8 hours ago, Nicky said:
With that out of the way, within the context of Ethics, Objectivism would consider as bad those deaths which are chosen for irrational reasons, it would consider good those deaths which are chosen for rational reasons, and it would consider amoral (neither good nor bad) those deaths which are inevitable.
I’m not interested in discussing the ethics of death. This thread is about the metaphysics of death. Note there is a difference between “badness” in a metaphysical sense and “moral/justifiable” in an ethical sense.