In my previous topic, about having children, GreedyCapitalist made a very interesting and revealing comment for the Objectivism mindset, about how one shouldn’t care if one’s children share his genes.
I can’t seem to be able to get my head around this one. Maybe you can clear up some issues…
If we are both mind and body, a union in a single entity of the two, which is what I believe, then it is logical to presume that both elements are part of our self-image, part of the *actual* self.
In this case, I’d say that perpetuating your body, your genes, is as important as perpetuating your ideas, perhaps even more, since the drive to have children is deeply embedded into our somatic psychology, it’s one of the basic instinct, especially since few people are that cerebral to actually hold ideas of their own and value them as something to be transmitted.
I know that most objectivists don’t accept the notion of instict, fearing that it is a form of pre-cognition, or a way to introduce a god or another. What I’m talking about here is automated, instinctual, behaviour, a complex one, but a behaviour none the less, a behaviour without any ideological load.
The difference between the breeding instinct and others (breathing, defecating, etc) is that while other instincts foster survival, the breeding instinct survived because otherwise none of us would be here to ask that question. Breeding is what makes the mind possible.
Now, seeing that we have this behaviour baggage of desires and needs to procreate, I suggest we embrace it and apply reason to optimize it.
In a sense, what I’m saying is that if you really care about your children, then make sure not only to equip them with the best ideas, which they might eventually reject, but also with the best body, the best genes.
I suspect that, in a sense, Objectivism’s radical focus on reason, while being a great source of mental liberty and overall enhancer of civilization, sometimes leads to the rationalization of the non-intellectual in us, our instincts, our very nature.
One doesn’t have children because one wished to experience the joys of the process. One has children because it is in one’s nature to do so, and one will do it fiercelly even in the most troubling moments of child care.
Men and women have went to great lenghts to fullfil their nature and willingly accepted great suffering for it.
From an Oist perspective, if a parent isn’t receiving the pleasure he had expected from a child, we would be morally justified to abandon that child, or even killing it, since that child might not have intellectual faculties yet… only *potential* ones.
While I do agree that one shouldn’t accept to die for one’s children, one will never the less accept great losses, which is somewhat contrary to the ideas that man ought to live rationally, for his own rationality, reason for reason’s sake, in other words.
I think that the attitude towards chilldren is only part of the process of accepting our nature, as thinking bodies. What’s your take on it?