But I still seriously doubt the value of the condemnation. I think it has a negative effect. I’ve already stated my reasons.
Why do you think the condemnation (without its rational support) is good? What purpose does it serve?
First, I was talking strictly about one’s obligation to provide an explanation. The value of condemnation vs. further explanation is contigent on the individual context.
Second, verbally denouncing or condemning someone’s actions does not mean that it is without rational support just because you don’t tell them. However, since I assume you mean verbalizing that rational support to the evil doer, move on to three.
Third, it’s not likely that someone is going to just say “I hereby condemn you” and just leave it at that. At the very least they would likely say “for stealing that women’s purse” (or insert act here). Now whether or not the person makes the connection that stealing purses is wrong or not is another matter but they are not totally clueless as to what the concern is. IF it represents a value to me, further explanation may be in order. Further explanation may in fact be a distinct disvalue if you tick the person off and they decide to assault you. Obviously this can happen with the unexplained condemnation as well which means I may simply avoid the person without so much as uttering anything at all to them.
I hope you realize that I deal with EXTREMELY irrational people EVERY DAY. I have spent a significant amount of my time on the job trying to reason with some people who let it go in one ear and out the other. I lost value (due to frustration) by wasting my time and breath on these people. Now I only do so if I think I have something to gain from it. Otherwise I simply tell them only that which is necessary to resolve my business with them. It’s in their best interest to seek the why, not (usually) mine.
Your assumption seems to be that it is ALWAYS in the condemning person’s interest to follow through with further explanation or that there is always value to be gained by helping the other person connect the dots. I’m saying it is not always in condemner’s best interest, nor is it always their obligation to do so. The value gained from condemnation from the condemner’s point of view is that he has now clarified an aspect of his (dis)continued relationship with the evil-doer even if the evil-doer doesn’t understand why. I’ve communicated that I don’t like that person or that activity, and that knowledge is gained. Additionally, the condemner may gain a positive reputation with other people that matter more to him (and with whom he may wish to share his further explanation) based on his judgement. The condemner may have also saved himself some time, energy and frustration.
The value possibly gained by the actor is introspection on one’s activities such that they may begin to understand something about themselves that other people don’t like. Your assumption appears to be that the actor must always be told why what he did was wrong, when in fact he may already know it, or may have the ability to discover himself. If I were to be told by enough people, or even one person who’s opinion mattered to me, that I was doing something wrong, I would try to discover myself what that thing was regardless of how much more information they volunteer to give.
There MAY be times when there’s better value to providing further explanation to the evil-doer, but that is not always the case.
But it is a potentially altruistic motive to infer some obligation to explain further is always in order. The “evil doer” likely has no right to my association, and no right for me to make him understand why I withold some or all of that association from him. The time and effort that I must invest in another person are mine to determine.
Now all that said, if you remain unconvinced, you can still choose to live with the positive or negative consequences of your approach. That is not my concern.