I think you raised some interesting points, adrock.
But this conversation brings about a good topic for discussion which I have often thought about. That is, there are many ethical decisions such as the ones airborne is coping with in which the standard of one’s life is ambiguous at first. This is due to the fact that the benefit one receives from them is a.) more abstract and therefore more difficult to grasp, and b.) not necessarily immediate; in fact, it could be extremely long range.
I think you are missing the primary immediate gain: which is maintaining self esteem, and reinforcing your ideal co-existence with people.
The primary gain is hardly the long term financial benefit that could come from giving back the extra money.
The gain is being able to enjoy a ride in the bus while knowing you have earned the ride, and bought it from men who are productive and give good service.
However - think what is required from a person to be able to hold such thoughts regarding a bus ride, and to be able to enjoy a thought of fair trade among people. It is quite a lot.
First, they have to have clear enough integration of the immediate reality with their principles. For that, they need to focus and invest effort into thinking stuff through. They need to have benevolent people premise; you would not enjoy paying bad, lame people. Enjoyment from payment in a trade can only come if there is respect for people and for their creative ability.
If you hold that people are honest, with some bad exceptions, you’d enjoy trading with them fairly. If you choose to focus on those people who steal and lie as representing what you might expect from humanity, you would loose all motivation for fair trade.
If you choose to dedicate your life to interacting with honest people, and treat bad cases as exceptions, you’d be motivated to produce and trade fairly.
So the gain is psychological, and it is a matter of one’s premises, level of clarity and integration.
If you ever had a case when someone found something valuable you lost and gave it back to you, you must have experienced a unique kind of joy: a joy that doesn’t come just from getting the object back: but from getting evidence that human beings are decent, and that the world is a good place to live in.
Ask yourself (airborne) if you can feel the same joy while consciously holding the memory of keeping extra bus-change the day before.
It would collide, wouldn’t it? something will tarnish that joy. Auch, it’s your damaged self-confidence.
It seems glaringly obvious at first: If I am going to die tomorrow, then why should I return the change to the bus lady?
The surprising answer is that for a man who holds moral, integrated views, in a society of good people - the reward would be enjoyment.
I think the answer involves one’s values. The aim of an individual should not be simply to profit or benefit from every action he or she performs, within the immediate range of the moment (essentially hedonism).
Small, further clarification: I do think that by acting fairly toward people, one can derive an immediate benefit.
I think DWs raised great point about why principles are important. Life and happiness require actions guided by rational standard. Random behavior won’t work.
But I think the point I am making here is the second half: a man uses principles to achieve happiness. Happiness, as a deep, fundamental emotion about living, can only come by living by integrated principles, in a comprehensible world.
Mere physical survival can be achieved in more than one way. More money can be made by deceit, too. But not happiness.