Males and Females have different metaphysical traits, I’m sure. What they are I can’t really tell you because I’m not really well informed in the area.
How are you sure of something about which you admit you are not well-informed?
I know this though, I wouldn’t want to be a woman and I like being a man.
As others have already attested, there are women who wouldn’t want to be men either. Personally I think it is pretty much a good thing when a person is satisfied with their gender. What that has to do with the topic at hand is another matter.
Here’s a hint though, if you get to the point where you are thinking about asking a girl out (or maybe for marriage), you might want to reconsider their “utility” to men goes beyond sex and babies. If you can’t appreciate her for more than that, you may be in for a long, lonely life. Either that or just stick to prostitutes.
Perhaps therein lies the answer, consider men and women beyond simply utility.
Also don’t give me that women are better caregivers bullsh*t. If my mom was working and my dad was at home all day I’m sure he would be a heck of a better caregiver than my mom.
Well, your sampling is rather small there. If someone did make the claim that women were better caretakers, I think they would concede that the statement is not true 100% of the time. It would probably be more of a generality.
Nevertheless, I have to ask; if your mom is that bad at taking care of you, and your father would be so much better, why is he allowing her to take care of you? Or is it possible given the entire context of the situation that they are BOTH doing what is best in taking care of you as a couple (but in different ways)?
But then, I do not think you can attach oughts to romantic attraction; you are attracted to someone because they represent many things you value (subconsciously or not).
But that is an “ought”. If you are attracted to such a woman, and they are available and equally inclined towards you, hadn’t you “ought” to pursue her? Or ought you pursue a different woman who does not fit that bill?
The “ought” is identifying reality and acting in accordance to that reality. That applies as much to romantic attraction as it does to anything else.