general-lz

I can agree with this. I think that the sense of life is what is really involved - and it is just a matter of time and will to find some inner qualities of the object of "love". if it appear that she isn't anything else than only a joy of being alive, without any rational base, the "love" would decrease in time (it the man is rational - if he is irrational, her irrationality wouldn't matter to him at all). I think this explanation is the best.

i would like to ask for a question which haunts me for while: how can rationality, according objectivism, deal with completely irrational falling in love, for a person, who is, for example, completely anti-mind and anti-reason and interested only in what to wear, etc... And only thing that is special about him or her is his/her pretty face. One knows that there is no point in any romantic relationship with such a person, except for the pleasure of touching and kissing that pretty body, but simply can not stop thinking of him/her... How to rationally deal with something like this?