You mean you’ve never heard of people who fear that contact with ‘perverts’ is going to corrupt them or others? Or those who are afraid of it being somehow “catching”, and afraid of physical contact of any kind?
No; not outside of things making fun of it.
I’ve frequently heard that line about “I’m not afraid of X, I just hate X,” and my response is always “uhuh.”
Hate and fear are two separate emotions. As I said, yes, there are some people who are actually afraid but they are the completely insane ones who - like you said - are afraid they will catch “the gay.” The term “homophobia,” however, is used to describe anyone who has any objection to or distaste for, the practice whatsoever. This is my objection.
Pederasty was common in Greece too, but our rejection of it today is objectively justifiable as a violation of children’s rights. The same cannot be said about homosexuality.
That hasn’t stopped at least some people I’ve seen from arguing that it is a Christian holdover as well, in arguments about statutory rape laws. The temptation, it seems, is to attribute anything one does not like that involves restraint on a sexual practice, as Christian. And, as a corollary, to also make the same accusation of anyone advocating such a position.
But lots people play it fast and loose with this practice, without fully thinking the matter through. So I make it a point to call into question any such accusation. Christianity might be a major influence on our culture, but it is not the be-all-end-all boogeyman such that you can just blindly accuse it whenever you “smell” something “repressive.” (Not you, JJM; I’m speaking generally here)
As to most men, what is the origin for fears about their masculinity being questioned? Did the Greeks have such problems?? As far as I can tell, those insecurities about masculinity arise from religious thoughts on dominance and submission. The Romans held that much explicitly, and Christian culture originates in Roman cultural practices as much as it does Jewish.
So you’re saying that when you say “Christian,” that you mean Roman rather than Biblical? Could you elaborate?
As to the doctrinal part, the highly religious often hate all sex, but consider pregnancy to be something that justifies it
Sure, but per my post I am not talking about the highly religious here. I’m talking about the majority of men I’ve met who consider homosexuality offensive and who have explicitly given a masculine, non-religious explanation to me as to what bothers them. Are you telling me that they’re all repressed Christians even though they don’t even know it? That’s an awfully Freudian claim, and frankly Freud was full of crap.
All I can see is that this is remnant prejudice that has detached from its primitive origins and not recognised as such by otherwise modern people.
Sure, that much is apparent. But as I said, the objections I refer to are those of an explicitly non-religious nature. The explanation that they really are religious without even knowing it is unsatisfying to me.